Along Our Way

What a way to end a summer! We Offenburgers were the guests on a late-summer weekend at the lake house of our friends Joe and Cindy Connolly. The Connollys live in Council Bluffs and commute many weekends to their get-away place on a private lake just south of Columbus, Nebraska. It was a real “kick-back” weekend with lots of sunshine, fun boating, good food and plenty of time to read.
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A conversation
LIVING WITH CANCER
with the Offenburgers
Chuck Offenburger was diagnosed with non-Hodgkins follicular lymphoma cancer on July 10, 2009, had six months of chemotherapy & is now doing well in a “maintenance” program. Carla Offenburger underwent surgery on April 26, 2010, for removal of a jaw tumor which was found to contain adenoid cystic carcinoma cancer. She underwent six weeks of follow-up radiation in June and July, and continues under close medical observation. We post updates frequently here, including brief insights from Chuck, Carla and at least one of you readers.
“Carla, if you were standing here I’d hug you. This is such a ton of stress and scheduling for anyone but then add that you are recouping yourself and it is nearly overwhelming. Yet here you are forging ahead.”
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Carla’s sister & brother-in-law Chris and Tony Woods, of Des Moines, were at the farm on Sunday, August 22, helping Carla do the lawn mowing and other yard work that we’ve struggled to keep up with lately, with all our medical appointments. The Woodses brought along their 18-month-old granddaughter Ari, who was a delight watching all the action from the porch with Chuck, catching up on her reading and then getting a moment on the lawn tractor seat!
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Chuck Offenburger's
new book on sports
legend Gary Thompson
gets excellent reviews
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 ''GARY THOMPSON: All-American'' is the new, 352-page biography of one of the state’s genuine sports icons. From 1950-’53 Gary Thompson led the Roland Rockets to high school sports glory in basketball and baseball, giant-killers from one of Iowa’s small schools. Then he led the Cyclones at Iowa State from 1953-’57, becoming the college’s first two-sport All-American. He’s had major success in broadcasting and business, from his home base in Ames. And he and his wife Janet have a family as solid as they come. “I’m the luckiest guy around,” Thompson says.
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 Neil Hackman is a special “Turkey of the Year” in a special year at Turkey Valley High School
By CHUCK OFFENBURGER November 26, 2009 JACKSON JUNCTION, IOWAIn this Thanksgiving season of 2009, it is a special year at Turkey Valley High School here in northeast Iowa.
It was 50 years ago right now when the communities of Fort Atkinson, Protivin, Lawler, Waucoma, St. Lucas, Little Turkey and Jackson Junction were forming a new school district. With all those communities involved, the new school couldn’t possibly have one of those hyphenated names, like many other consolidated schools were using. No acronym was possible, either. One thing all the towns and rural areas around here had in common – they were all located around the branches of the Turkey River. And, thus, “Turkey Valley Community School District.”
Twenty-one years later, in 1980, along came a young newspaper columnist from Des Moines who, like most Iowans, had become familiar with the name of the school. He had always wondered if Turkey Valley folks did anything special at Thanksgiving time. Well, he learned, they all eat turkey. They also catch a lot of kidding from fans of rival schools’ sports teams, who often “gobble” when the Turkey Valley Trojans take the court or field. And Jackson Junction, where the school is located, often is turned into “Gobblers’ Gulch.”

| | Neil Hackman, 2009 ''Turkey of the Year'' from Turkey Valley High School in northeast Iowa. |
So, joining the fun, I proposed that the senior classes at Turkey Valley start picking one classmate – a fun-loving good kid who doesn’t have to be a top scholar or top anything – as “Turkey of the Year.” I’d come up in the Thanksgiving season, interview the “Good Gobbler,” buy his or her family an actual turkey and then tell the rest of Iowa about it.
We started that in 1980 – six U.S. presidents and four Iowa governors ago – and have now been continuing the tradition for 30 “Turkeys.” It’s been wonderful seeing how well they’ve all done in life.
By the way, we’ll gather as many of the 30 as possible at Homecoming next fall, for a special banquet during Turkey Valley’s 50th anniversary celebration. You can guess what our entrée will be then.
It is fitting that in this special year at Turkey Valley, the seniors and I have selected a special “Turkey of the Year” – Neil Hackman. In 30 years, I doubt we’ve ever had a “Turkey” who was more genuinely thankful than the 17-year-old Hackman is.
It’s not the honor he’s so grateful for, he’s just glad to be alive and healthy.
He is 6 ft. 5 in. tall and a “3-ball shooter” for the Trojan basketball team, now running the floor with as much joy as abandon.
“I appreciate just being able to play,” he said. “It looked for a while like I’d never get to play sports again, and that if any hard pass had hit me in the chest, I might have died.”
The scare came in the summer before his sophomore year, when he was taking a physical examination before football practice was going to start. Local docs were concerned that there might be some heart issue. In “a rough few weeks,” Hackman said he went on to be examined by other physicians who shocked the family with a diagnosis that there was “a 95 percent chance” he had Marfan Syndrome. That’s a disorder in the connective tissue in the body, and it can include defects in the heart valves and aorta.
“It was like two months that we thought Neil had Marfan Syndrome, and it was really hard – a big scare,” said Donna Hackman, his mother. “It can be inherited, so we all had our hearts checked – my husband Rick and I, and both the older kids.” That’s Jill, 26, who lives in Des Moines and works in information technology for an insurance company, and Luke, 23, a recent college graduate in computer networking who is helping on the family farm.
“Neil was really down then – we all were,” Donna continued. “When we were driving between doctors’ appointments then, I was trying everything to keep some hope alive. I’d say, ‘You know, let’s not forget we’ve got a five percent chance that you don’t have it.’ ”
It all was heavy stuff for a 15-year-old athlete to be weighing. And for his family. And, actually, for the whole tight-knit Turkey Valley community.
Donna said she’ll “never forget how good Neil’s basketball coach Mike Kuennen was for us right then, and all Neil’s friends, too. They all stuck right with him.” There was, she said, a very special phone call from Coach Kuennen.
“Just thinking back now to when we were all going through that, makes my hair stand on end,” said Kuennen, a 1986 Turkey Valley grad. “It was a situation where we were very, very fortunate as a community. As soon as I heard about it, I called Rick and Donna. I told them that regardless of whether Neil ever made another shot for us in basketball, we were first of all concerned for him, his health and his family.
“I told them – and then told Neil later when he came to see me – that if it turned out that he couldn’t play, he’d still be a part of our basketball team. We all knew how much he loved basketball, and how important it is to him. I told them that he could be the student manager, or the statistician, and that if he thought he might be interested in becoming a coach some day, well, we could get him a Polo shirt like our coaches wear, and he could become another assistant coach, be right there on the bench with us. There were a lot of ways he could be a real part of the team even if he wasn’t playing.”
But after two months of worry, and additional medical exams back in 2007, including extensive ultra-sound checks at the Mayo Clinic in Rochester, Minn., there was great news. Marfan Syndrome was ruled out, and Neil Hackman was given clearance to resume normal physical activity.
“When the doctors told me that, it was amazing,” Neil said. “The best feeling ever.”
Neil Hackman is a key player this season for the Turkey Valley High basketball season, after a serious health scare two years ago. Here he puts up a shot on the driveway court at his farm home south of Protivin.
His mother Donna said “after all the medical checks, it turns out that we’ve just got long, tall, gangly kids. They’ve got some symptoms common for Marfan Syndrome – long fingers and limbs, Neil’s double-jointed in his fingers – but they don’t have the tissue problems that are so dangerous.”
Coach Kuennen said that in the two years that have now passed, a special bond has developed on the basketball team.
“Our seniors have been playing together since they were little kids, and since my son Derek is one of them, I’ve been real close to all of them, too,” the coach said. “After going through the scare with Neil, it’s really brought us all even closer together.”
He has seen Neil really develop as a player in that time, too.
“I can tell, starting this season, that he’s really put a lot of time into basketball over the summer,” Kuennen said. “He’s running the floor well, and he’s really worked on his shot. I think he’s played a lot of one-on-one basketball with his dad outdoors at home. I know Rick mentioned in a conversation some time ago that their games at home weren’t as much fun for him now, because ol’ Dad wasn’t winning much anymore. Neil had taken over.”
Neil thrives on living life to its fullest now.
He’s a strong student, carrying a 3.6 grade point average on the 4-point system. His course load this fall includes U.S. government, composition, computer business, math analysis, developmental psychology, health & fitness and careers exploration. One course he’s really liked is “Foods II,” a home economics class “where you get to eat a lot – how could you not like that?” He discovered he’s “pretty good at cake decorating,” and for a class project, made and frosted a small wedding cake.
He has also been one of the anchors on his senior class rope-pulling team, which has won the school championship two years in a row. “The juniors don’t usually beat the seniors,” he said, “but we did last year.”
Scouting and church have also been big parts of his life. He is “looking for an Eagle Scout project now” for the very-active Troop 58 in Protivin, where several members of his senior class are members. He’s an altar boy and usher at Trinity Catholic Church in Protivin.
He is leaning toward enrolling at the University of Northern Iowa after graduation.
Neil Hackman said what he’s loved most about Turkey Valley is the same thing that 29 earlier “Turkeys of the Year” have all quickly identified, too. It’s a strong sense of community, almost like family, among all involved with the school.
In its 50th year, the school district faces the same problems that most smaller schools in Iowa do – declining enrollment, less state aid, tighter budgets. There are 48 seniors, but only 28 in kindergarten.
“We’ve learned through the years to be pro-active and innovative,” said Carol Knoll, who is in her third year as principal after earlier serving here as a teacher and athletic director. “We work with the community colleges, and we have courses available online and from the Iowa Communications Network.”
To help deal with the budget strains, a Turkey Valley Schools Foundation has recently been organized. “We have really strong organizations of music boosters and athletics boosters, and they really help,” said Rhonda Drilling, who is directing the new foundation. “The new foundation will be more of an academic boosters program, to help the school cope with the financial challenges. We’ll enhance academics all we can.”
What the future all comes down to, said Knoll, is staying focused “on what do we need to do to provide the best possible education for our students?”
That’s been the Turkey Valley story for 50 years. In fact, that could have been the new school’s founding statement back in 1959.
Three turkeys -- including writer Chuck Offenburger and Neil Hackman, the latter the 30th winner of ''Turkey of the Year'' honors at Turkey Valley High School. (Photo by Tammy Vrzak of Turkey Valley Schools.)
THE ROSTER OF “TURKEYS OF THE YEAR” OVER THE PAST 30 YEARS
1980, Paul Barloon. 1981, Mike Kuennen. 1982, David Lusson. 1983, Barb Pinter. 1984, Steve Samec. 1985, Connie Mueterthies Frick. 1986, Carl Reicks. 1987, Chris Galligan. 1988, Paul Arens. 1989, Dana Reicks. 1990, Kris Kovarik. 1991, Greg Arens. 1992, Jenny Reicks Koudelka. 1993, Leon Arens. 1994, Lynn Smith Arens. 1995, Kim Kuennen. 1996, Jackson Hayek. 1997, Jeff Halverson. 1998, Mike Arens. 1999, Steve Nolte. 2000, Dana Croatt. 2001, Matt Hackman. 2002, Andy Pavlovec. 2003, Greg Stammeyer. 2004, Kyle Panos. 2005, Bryan Christophersen. 2006, Todd Schmitt. 2007, Keith Langreck. 2008, Grant Cuvelier. 2009, Neil Hackman.
You can write the columnist at chuck@Offenburger.com.
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